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Judith Selby Lang's avatar

In addtion to the meaning in the words and the stories you tell, your writing has a beautiful cadence, and a rhythm that moves the reader along at a perfect pace. It was a pleasure to read. And although the audience for this post might be other therapists, your timely pondering about “how to live in the presence of endings” is for everyone.

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Wendell Hanna's avatar

I love how you reflect on this person outside of the official roles you both played. It is clear she was a respected person to you, not just a client. It was not a black and white relationship, but more of a dance for you, which shows what a great therapist you are.

Growing old is something all people share. Thank you for giving us a moment to reflect on this woman's life as well as our own.

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DocLoren's avatar

A gentle and moving reminder that therapists are also transformed. “Objectivity” ends when we accept the invitation to enter the sacred world of our patients’ hearts and minds. In doing so, a new alchemy is created and remains; whether or not life does.

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Meg's avatar

A lovely testament to your patient and your relationship with her!

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Eliot Nelson's avatar

What a beautiful piece of writing, Susan! So much rings so true, and I want to hold close and also share the wisdom of your words and memories, and the feelings you've given birth to with them here. We are all falling, slowly or suddenly; we must all somehow learn how to let go. I try to remember to feel grateful -- and I am grateful to you, with love, for this work and this moment.

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Larry's avatar

This was lovely to read. Thank you.

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David's avatar

How beautifully you have given words to capture such complex and poignant experiences.

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